Domestic Abuse for Male Victims

Domestic abuse behaviour can be physical, psychological, sexual or financial.

If you are experiencing domestic abuse or have been subjected to patterns of bullying or controlling behaviours, whether in an intimate or family relationship, it’s abuse – and it’s time to take action.

Abuse is rarely a one-off event, and domestic abuse behaviour tends to get worse over time.

It’s important to realise that your abuser is responsible for their own actions. Abusive behaviour is unwarranted and unacceptable under any circumstances.

Do men experience domestic abuse?

Abuse is experienced by people of all ages, ethnic backgrounds, genders, gender identities and sexualities. It affects people of different abilities, and happens across every class background. Whoever you are and whatever abuse you’re experiencing, you’re not alone.

Are you being bullied or controlled?

Then you are being abused. Abuse takes on many different forms – see Men’s Advice Line for more information on the types of abuse.

Where can I get help if I think I am experiencing abuse?

If you are experiencing domestic abuse, you are not alone. Help and support are available:

• Call the Men’s Advice Line on 0808 8010 327 (Mon–Fri 10am–8pm) or chat online for confidential support.
• Contact ManKind at 01823 334 244 (Mon–Fri 10am–4pm) for guidance and advice.
• Access resources from Respect Men’s Advice Line for further support.

Remember, seeking help is strength, not weakness. Your safety and wellbeing are important.